[peebeebee]

I don’t even think that saying stupid and shallow comments speaks to the person who said it. Don’t we all say stupid and shallow things every day? It takes serious effort to filter thoughts in such a calculated way so it’s always the “perfect” thing to say. It might be even neurotic to constantly try this. We are all failed, but I’d like to think just most of us did not really had bad intentions. Maybe just a bad moment. Or some bad insight. :)

[dotancohen]

  > Don’t we all say stupid and shallow things every day?

Yes, we all do. And I'm not convinced that trying to filter all one's speech because someone might be oversensitive is the correct approach.