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> at that point it's really just semantics

Nah, There's a structural difference between (A) adding a status column to one table and changing your queries and joins to care/not care about it, versus (B) adding is_deleted to every table and layering get in as a bonus where clause everywhere.

In other words, The thing being solved is not suitable for a cookie-cutter table/row-level design. It's a real business-logic quality of your data model that lives in particular places and mean slightly different things in those different places.