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I don't think it's necessarily so black and white. Both parties fell for something, if that's still there, maybe it can be found again. Maybe.

If not, sure I agree with you. I don't think it's advisable to stay in an absolutely unhappy AND unfixable relationship. But I do think it's worth trying to fight for it.

I'm in a 15 year long relationship, and it's not been smooth sailing. Some experiences require knowing each other very deeply.

This is a very powerful experience IMO.