[Arisaka1]

Not the person you asked but I can give you my reasons:

1. Job market being overly picky makes it hard to jump ship, especially if you're early-mid level 2. There's a general notion that "everywhere's the same deal" so people just learn to cope with it 3. "Golden handcuffs" - compensation so good you're willing to tolerate the downsides.

[stavros]

For not reading the sibling's response, you really nailed the reasons.

[pelagicAustral]

my mother always said i need to learn to just shut up