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by marcus_holmes
682 days ago
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Do you know what happens if those "demands" are met with a response of: "I don't like your tone, please rephrase this as a polite request and I'll consider it" There are ways of setting boundaries around behaviour in real life. Can maintainers use those methods for this? |
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Phrased like that, I feel like things would only escalate. But in specific situations like the ones I mentioned, I would go for something like "As you know from your own experiences, software development takes time and effort and this is a volunteer project. I do take suggestions and issues seriously and am happy to discuss them in a constructive way. This discussion at the moment does not feel like such a constructive discussion. I'd be happy to continue the discussion from a more constructive place" and leave it at that. It is a bit more explicit than just "tone" and also makes it more clear as to why they might want to take their behavior more into consideration.
Overall, yeah I think maintainers and the setup of the project do influence a lot of how people interact with them. I actually left a comment about that somewhere else in this thread: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=41188425