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I am one of those "children of immigrants [sic] and can still feel the aftershocks of their austere upbringing". I have shifted my mindset a bit away from the extremes described in the article, and definitely can identify a bit with "that’s good; that’s noble" thought.

The thought and the behavior, for me, isn't to be noble for noble's sake. The article felt a bit short for me as often financial woes are not mostly in our heads. Our individual bank accounts might show that we as individuals are ahead but the financial woes are still quite real with many of our parents. (Western) Society, and this article, disconnects the financial situation of the financially successful immigrant children with that of their aging and often financially modest parents.

Spending and saving is wrapped in the guilt and the dreams of our the upbringing. I do go out, but I know my parent's are still cooking the proverbially ramen at home because they are behind on retirement. It is having room mates but still having rent in an average apartment costing more than my parents mortgage. It's having more money than your parents and siblings combined, while seeing that your parents worked twice as hard being limited by their lack of network and English skills. All while home ownership is getting harder so for our generation. Secure our own future feels like a zero sum game with sharing and give financially to our parents, and, as importantly, giving the luxuries society says we can afford to ourselves.