[urda]

I'm not completely shocked, and for a lot it does come down to literally greed. My grandparents immigrated to the United States on both sides of the family, and had my father and mother respectfully. They saw their work ethic and worked equally hard, reaching to high levels in their medical fields.

They then had a few children including me, and now I'm the only child left "standing" because my sisters turned into classic "Southern Belles" and once the cash flow stopped from the folks they quit coming around. My brother turned to booze and the bottle, thinking partying is the only true answer. It's just depressing that out of the 4 children who had the same education and upbringing, I'm pretty much the only one in the generation that "gets" the concept of finance and money.

My sisters and brother? Literally no work ethic. They are literally proud to scrape by, avoid holding a job, and avoid helping our aging parents. But the sisters demanded the most lavish things and weddings, and the brother expected that my father and I would have infinite resources to keep bailing his ass out of trouble.

It is no surprise that I've maintained a healthy relationship with my parents and family, while they've continued to seek the next quick buck in their lives.

[oezi]

You started with "it does come down to literally greed", but the rest doesn't include what I would consider greediness, namely that many times the parents do not properly pass the wealth down the generations because they want to hold onto it until retirement or death.

Financially it would make most sense to pass money early (invested in ETFs) and ensure that children can step on the property ladder early on, but this requires parents to pass a lot of wealth in their mid-40ies to mid-50ies.