[schmichael]

> There are plenty of poor countries (and folks) having children.

Does having children impact their earning potential? The US offers a relatively high earning potential, and having children really directly interferes with that. If you don't have high earning potential, having kids may not have an appreciable impact.

Childcare alone can easily cost over $1k/mo. Daily Starbucks and eating out is nothing compared to having kids.

[chasd00]

> Does having children impact their earning potential?

it certainly did in my case. Holding a newborn and realizing an actual life depends on you is good motivation to do what it takes to get better as a whole, earn more, and climb the ladder. It wasn't easy but i'm in a much better financial position with kids than i would be without. I know myself pretty well and i'm sure i'd be in the same apartment doing the same thing day after day year after year like my childless friends. No knock on them but i've grown my income way more than they have and I credit family obligations for forcing my hand.

[taylodl]

Blaming Starbucks and occasionally eating out for people not having children is a moral accusation: you're just too selfish to have children. The people making such claims are assholes and typically are completely ignorant of the financial realities of having children today.

[janalsncm]

At least they should be in the right financial ballpark then. The cost of raising a kid is on the same order of magnitude as buying a new house.