Nope, I'm happily married, we live 2,000 miles away from the incident, and I won't disclose the name of the company involved. I have no ties to anyone involved. I have no interest in hurting anyone from any company by bringing this up. I just wanted to start a discussion.
Your article was so emotional and biased, just thought it looked like your view on this was to "strict" for the startup world.
Everything is more spontaneous and loose. I think they would respect anyone in their group who didn't think it was nice to go to that place, as I think you should respect their choice.
You just went 100% for it and I thought it was a bad choice.
I work with 2 guys and a girl and all of them are open minded to know what is and what is not going on.
It's the startup world: you can choose not only who works with you, but what works with you too.