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by Towaway69
704 days ago
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Well written, totally agree. I did the „have children and all will be well“ thing and the guilt I have towards those children is great. In my defence, I myself was a „child will save our relationship“-child - needless to say it didn’t work and left me with a giant question mark: why am I here? Hence I am a biased observer, each to their own & your mileage will vary. |
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I was quite obviously a wanted child, and I still feel this way; we are thrown into the world with no regard for our own preference (obviously it can be no other way). Clearly most people take to it with little problem, but I've never really felt like I belong. I've mostly made peace with that, but would not wish it on a child.