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by DyslexicAtheist
704 days ago
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work towards something that is yours. not some career BS but something that is a memory that only belongs to you. do something really really hard. e.g. like quit your job and walk the Appalachian trial for 6 months to reset how you feel about yourself. succeed in something you thought you could never ever do. but here is the key. it has to be fucking hard. after you fix the relationship and expectation of your self consider whether you still want a business. or if you still want the same partner. be more selfish. if more selfish isn't for you maybe you'll realize how much you miss her. or how much you want kids. only then consider going forward with the burden of marriage, kids and what society expects of you ... pain is the key but it doesn't automatically mean that pain needs to come from your partner or your kids. pretty sure you'll be perfectly capable creating pain by yourself. you can do it. |
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