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by 93po 695 days ago
i refuse to have a first date with any more commitment than drinks or coffee. way too many too-long dinner dates where leaving a clearly bad match is way too awkward
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Maybe this needs some structure where people get to test the waters first.

Going on a vacation with somebody new seems like it could be a huge amount of fun but it really could go bad. The right kind of group could also create a safe-feeling environment.