[s_baby]

There's a difference between making a kid feel capable as anyone else and making them feel they're special. The latter leads to narcissism.

[pbhjpbhj]

Making a kid feel as capable as everyone else is forcing them to lie to themselves. How is that a good thing?

[s_baby]

So is instilling self-limiting beliefs.

[pbhjpbhj]

It sounds like you're trying to make a point but I can't tell from your comment what it is?