[itomato]

I think a big piece is that accepting it as culturally important is not healthy or sustainable.

You're not a victim of evil, you're just a product of that unmotivated culture.

[richrichie]

Eating a slice of cake with coffee with your partner or friend or coworkers, enjoying a bowl of ice-cream with your children are important to a life well lived. Of course, standard disclaimers apply i.e. eat good quality cakes and ice cream, etc.