[intellectronica]

The concept of "mentor" is now misunderstood and overrated.

It became a meme in the professional world in recent years, and people don't really understand what it means.

You don't look for a "mentor" the way you would a teacher or coach for hire. No-one who can really help you would be available on that basis. But if you put yourself out there, do cool stuff and share, offer to help with interesting projects (and then deliver) ... you may find that you've developed that kind of relationship with someone.

If that happens, make the most of it. And until it does, don't block your progress on waiting for that "mentor". The internet is full of books, videos, tutorials, forum posts, chat rooms, with so much you can learn and grow from.

In the end, when it comes to your life and career, you need to make your own decisions. Where you get ideas and advice from matters less. If you somehow found yourself with a mentor who helps you accelerate your learning and growth that's cool, but it's still up to you to decide.