[dijit]

but it would then be your choice.

and, c’mon, people do harder things in the interest of family.

Maintaining a home is a shitload of work, but we dont live in a prison so that we can avoid the effort of cleaning and cooking.

The skills to run a federated matrix instance, for example, can be had in less time than it takes to learn how to BBQ without starting a fire or poisoning someone. Yet we choose to do that, we even consider transferal of those skills to be a bonding experience.

[lukeschlather]

There are a lot of different layers here. Sure, it's not hard at all to set up a federated matrix instance. Doing it so it's as secure as keeping something in a locked house though, that's actually a pretty tricky skill. I'll grant that it's not necessarily harder than safe cooking, but it's a lot easier to find someone who can teach you safe cooking.

Now, another layer is that while I have a healthy distrust of corporations like Apple or Facebook, I actually think that it's virtually impossible to match the level of security they provide. And it's not a prison, it's a nice, clean cafeteria, with pretty good food which is practically free. The food could be better but I would much rather spend my time making home cooked meals than securing a server.

[dijit]

I’m going to continue the analogy then;

In truth: I’d rather someone else cook my meals, seriously.

I’m a terrible cook, however what is happening is that everyone has decided they they’re a terrible cook and the planet has become completely dependent on fast-food restaurant chains.

“But its where my friends are, they would never join me in a steak restaurant, it’s unfamiliar and theres no parking”.

We forgot how to make home-cooked meals, its learned helplessness, for decades.

It’s going to be painful if we start now. It’s going to be even more painful if we start a decade from now.

[lukeschlather]

This isn't food, it's mail delivery. As a general rule I don't hand-deliver my own letters and I shouldn't have to hand-deliver them to get privacy.

[dijit]

Well, you see even there I think you'd think differently if people lived in the same general area as you and you could conceivably walk passed their door.

And the delivery service in question was, slow, arbitrarily changing their rules and governed in a foreign country that had a bad reputation for dragnet surveillance.