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Both seem like a reaction to the other from where I'm standing, basically a series of over-corrections/reactions.

The endgame of that seems to be that you have two sides with some completely crackpot stances that they (hopefully?) don't even really believe in themselves, but use as a sort of identity marker.

I have to confess that personally I find some of it utterly laughable and it's hard for me to engage seriously.

Like, yeah, of course abortion should be legal, but also, being "non-binary" is just a little bit weird.

Both of those camps are, well, to put it politely, in search of a hobby.