[tcbawo]

I am looking for a personal contact manager that has integration with a personal calendar. I have talked about this with my wife who has moderate ADHD: it is harder for her to manage relationships, because she generally lacks a perception of time. Getting gentle reminders to follow up with a friend or acquaintance would be very helpful. But none of these are business relationships, so maybe looking for CRM software is barking up the wrong tree, even if open source and extensible. Is there anyone in a similar boat that has found a good solution?

[sn0wf1re]

I have had decent success using <https://www.monicahq.com> for journaling and birthday reminders.

[proee]

Consider https://legendapp.com/ or https://noteplan.co/ for nice note integration with your calendar. You could easily create a list of contacts in these systems and trigger various events (singular and recurring).

[bmulholland]

I use https://clay.earth/ which might be what you’re looking for

[voltaireodactyl]

If you’re on Mac/iOS, contact journal may be exactly what you’re looking for — it adds tasks/reminder/attachments/etc to contacts.