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by te_chris 755 days ago
Make time for people. Be open. Choose love and kindness. Accept that relationships are a journey and take effort - on both sides.

It won't always work. I've done pretty well at this tbh, but it has helped living in a city like London where soicalising is one of the main activites and easily facilitated - to an extent at least. Context is key, no doubt.

Marathon, not a sprint. Everyone's busy so gradually making yourself a mutual part of another person's life will take time.