[andreimackenzie]

Assuming the query language for the graph DB you have in mind is declarative like SQL, I recommend templated queries. I have found this technique scales pretty well for query complexity, makes it relatively trivial to "get to the query" if something needs to be debugged in the details more easily outside of the app, and it makes performance-oriented optimization work far easier.

I've had my share of headaches with the various flavors of ORM and GraphQL and always come back to query templates, e.g. MyBatis in the JVM ecosystem or Go's template package. There is still value in abstracting this from the REST web service interface to make it possible to change the app<->database connection without disrupting REST clients. It's possible to reuse parameter structs/classes between the REST client and DB+template client layers to avoid a lot of rote translation. It seems simple and repetitive, but actually saves time compared to the GraphQL/ORM complexity as apps & query complexity scale, in my experience.