[strken]

Sorry, what? The original suggestion was that a developer would change things and it would cause performance problems. That same developer can change either a REST system or a GraphQL system and introduce the same performance issues in the same way, probably by adding a horrible N+1 query, or unbounded parallelism, or unbounded anything else.

Yeah, the client can't change the query if you don't let it specify a query, this is trivially true, but the developer can go break an API endpoint with the exact same result while trying to achieve the exact same business outcome.

[jerf]

The much more constrained input of the REST query means that the effect of changes on the API are much more comprehensible. Performance testing a particular REST endpoint is generally practical, and if a dev doesn't do it, the responsibility is reasonably placed on them. GraphQL means that you may do something you think is completely innocent like changing some index but for some query you didn't anticipate it trashes the performance. The range of things the dev of a GraphQL endpoint must be keeping track of is much larger than a REST endpoint, arguably exponentially so (though generally with a low power factor in practice, the possible queries are still exponentially complicated), and taking on any form of exponential responsibility is generally something that you should do only as a last resort, even if you do think your powers will stay low.