[Ancapistani]

> EXCEPT when there's a fire

I heard a description a few weeks ago - on TikTok, of all places - that perfectly describes this for me:

I'm calm under stress, and stressed when it's calm.

[theshrike79]

Yea, I had an unconscious habit of waiting until things were on fire before doing anything about them.

Not really a healthy way to live in the end