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by naasking
763 days ago
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Maybe you have some kind of healthy expression of anger, but multiple studies have shown that venting anger physically or verbally just exacerbates it, because it causes you to ruminate on the causes of the anger, which just feeds back into it [1]. Focusing on something else, like a logic puzzle, can diffuse it. [1] https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S027273582... |
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I agree, in the short term anger can have negative consequences. But longer term, as you ruminate on the causes of anger, you can be more objective and see that the reaction may have been an overreaction and unproductive. You might even have regret (I've certainly felt regret).
If I always subdued my anger, I'd probably end up like the dog in the this is fine meme (and I'm not an angry person!).