Ah, those appear to be entirely multi-device-sync problems. (I use logseq with git-autocommit for storage and backup - but since the multi-node sync stuff wasn't available for self hosting anyway, I've never tried it, and thus dodged the problem entirely. Obviously for a lot of people multi-device use is the entire point, but for some of us, logseq is "just an editor"...)
Logseq has been fine for me over several years, but it also makes it extremely easy to auto-commit to git.