[jeltz]

After looking at Tinder both from men's and women's I would say women pit even less effort into photos than men do. But maybe this varies by country. No, I don't want another gym photo of you standing in an awkward pose.

And, yeah, I'd like to think I am at least decent at both games if only because I realize they are games.

[rrr_oh_man]

To extend the metaphor:

As a job seeker, you need to be in the 90th percentile.

As an employer, you need to be there.