[valencourt]

Do you have children? Do you have a good relationship with your parents?

I don't think it's unreasonable to assume that my kids will turn out to have traits that I liked in me and my parents. Just because of that, I would rather conceive.

[slurgfest]

Nobody has any idea how your kids will turn out - we have even less control over this than over how our marriages will turn out. But best of luck to you.