[neilv]

This might be good, in the balance, for some people, but an important component is lost...

There are things that past partners have done that were especially meaningful because they came from the heart -- because they thought of it, and wanted to.

And I'd never say what those things were, because it wouldn't be as special if a future partner did one of those other things because they'd been given intel that I'd like that.

Nor if they were told to by an app.

[sirsinsalot]

But, you did want to, so much so you used an app to ensure you did.

If my partner cared enough about me to ensure they used tools that helped them express it... I'd be flattered.

Have you used the app? Perhaps the ideas and reminders are along the lines of "put their fav songs in a playlist for your next car journey together"

That's actually a good one. Ima do that.