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Not just meeting potential spouses. Having studied psychology has helped my romantic relationships in odd and intangible ways. For 1, talking to women I didn't know was easier because while they couldn't relate to my programming interest, they could relate to my psychology interest. For 2, it was just easier to find someone given that you were in an environment were 80% of your students were female (me being male).

But what also really helped was knowledge on anxious/avoidant attachment styles or how intuition is works (I read a lot about Kahneman's research papers - not his pop science books). By understanding how intuition works, I was able to train it through meditation (I could get the academic sources but this would become a lecture). When I got a stronger intuition I could relate better to people in general that use their intuition as their default mode (something I never did as a kid).

Psychology also has helped me with some mental health issues long after I graduated from it. I was surprised because I wasn't that interested in the mental health aspect when I was studying it (I liked neuroscience and statistics). I recognize mental issues with myself early so I can start acting on it early as well.

This is the tip of the iceberg. My point is: I never expected these benefits. But they are very very real. Moreover, for some these benefits do not pan out this way. A friend of my also studied psychology and would've loved to have a girlfriend at the time but it didn't work out for him. In my case, it helped that I was a bit socially bold. I was socially insecure as well but it doesn't matter that one is insecure when they are socially bold (I can say that with hindsight, haha).