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Your experience is not a scientific experiment so you also have to consider that you might have been lucky. Perhaps other people have been unlucky.

For example, I could paint your post in a negative light: "A poster who blames the victim perhaps wants to feel good about the company they work in and ignore the experiences of others, or perhaps they are now in a responsible position and don't want to think that they might be part of a problem."

This would be unempathetic but so is trying to blame the people who describe their bad experiences.