[nagisa]

Have you seen/know about NodeRED? I myself have moved away from HA/OpenHAB-likes to NodeRED as that allows me control that's more... restricting. At its heart NodeRED is a visual programming tool (and I think it wouldn't be a terrible fit for Grafana), but what NodeRED has and Grafana doesn't is a community which built a very significant number of packages that integrate with various protocols and devices used in home automation.

I see a potential for some integration and/or idea sharing here. But it is also important to understand that the set of people who want to fiddle with their homes is much, much larger than the set of people who (are able to) program. Which is why HA and the likes are so popular.