[Aurornis]

> but they do two things: mandate required information and _imply_ that you are a guest and you must hold yourself to someone else's communication norms.

To be honest, tools like this do quite a good job of filtering out people who want you to bend over backward for them. If someone is so stubborn that they refuse to take a couple minutes to fill out someone’s form, they’re likely to be very demanding and uncooperative with every future engagement.

Of course, these people never see themselves as such.