[spywaregorilla]

You don't think it's their fault but have no sympathy for them?

[kcmastrpc]

The two aren't mutually exclusive, and that's also a misrepresentation of what I said. I believe I said something to the effect of I don't have a lot of sympathy for them

18-year olds make poor life choices all the time, but not all of those choices have repercussions which last 30-50 years.

[spywaregorilla]

Well if somebody is entrapped in a situation and you don't it's their fault you probably ought to have a lot of sympathy for them.