[HenryBemis]

You don't specify the "little family" (wife + pets? wife + couple of kids?).

Either way, save yourself. I would suggest "practice yoga" but I don't think it'll help that much.

I remember back in 2007 I went to the emergency room of a hospital, unable to breathe. Stress has cause my stomach to bloat to such a degree that it was squeezing my lungs. The docs saw that I wasn't some junkie faking the pain to get strong prescription drugs. One doc (not more than 30-35yo) took me on the side and told me "whatever is stressing you, quit it now.. work, gf, affair, hobby, whatever THAT thing is.. stop it tonight, otherwise the pills won't save you" (btw I got the prescription but never bought the pills).

I get the exact same vibe from you. If the exit of that tunnel is within arm's reach, keep at it. My friendly suggestion is set a deadline (1 week? 1 month? but not more). If things are 75.0% with a positive outlook --> continue, if they are 74.9% or less --> pull that cord and eject.