[warrenm]

My solution to this is only allowing a couple pairings per Bluetooth end device

My wife's van, for example, can store a few connections - but only "likes" to keep its most recent (so ... in her vehicle, while my phone is 'paired', it never connects)

The only thing I have with more than 1 or 2 pairings are my [nice] Bose headphones ... and those are only paired to 'my' devices (two laptops (home & work), my cell, and my wife's cell (because she likes to steal them to use when mowing))

Bluetooth soundbar? Only connects to my laptop

Bluetooth earbuds? Only connects to my phone

Bluetooth wall speaker? One connects to my wife's phone, the other to mine