[asdfman123]

I can't recommend "How to Know A Person" by David Brooks enough.

It's for us introverted nerds, by a fellow introverted nerd. A manual on how to become unblocked.

For a broad overview, though, the secret sauce is to learn to listen to people closely and make them feel heard. I think 90% of the battle is learning how to deeply listen and showing that you are indeed listening closely.

Again, everyone should get this book. Completely clear, no nonsense, actionable advice.