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The same here. But after 40 years of life experience, I start thinking.. where's actually the problem? I couldn't find the answer and now I think - it's all a lie and pressure from a few people being put on others to have a "differentiator" which makes the putting on pressure ones happy and others sad. Like the social media/Instagram - when you think of it, each nice photo on the beach, own kitchen, own fast car, ..., with beautiful and handsome people seeming having much fun and success in their life.. all of that is staged. Staged to get more followers. Staged to show to the others a wonderful life (not to show it themselves) and let others kind of admire/being jealous/etc ... In reality, such posers are ordinary people and the success comes with their ability to manipulate other's thinking (steep learning curve, though). They also need it, because only this can make them happy.. to be followed, to be admired means success for them. So, stop believing you're less worth because you can't compare with the ones presenting their life as perfect. Each successful ones also have non successful parts in their life. But they don't show it. (Like a friend of mine.. being successful in job and life, earning 30k per month, wearing good expensive clothes and driving like 3 cars, living in a 3 floor house ... but his wife ran away without any other man involved after 6 years of marriage.. so she just left him, pursuing their own life and dreams. Is this successful, one might ask? .. it depends on how you decide what success means. For me.. nope. It's better to have a stable life, being healthy and having a warm family where true love is practiced - this is success because many many many people living can't even reach that status. They might be earning a lot, but they will never earn true love, because their aim is different.) So, whenever I see one Show-off, I let him/her be like that and "give the apes some sugar" to let them feel good. Because this is the only aim in life, to make others happy.
Everything other than that you can't take with you when leaving :)
So, is it worth? :) Concentrate on what you can do and evolve your ideas especially within this topic 8^) |