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by seaourfreed 820 days ago
I don't think his comment means women are worse in the bay area. The bay area with far more males, then women are in high demand, and low supply. They have more bargaining power and can navigate to fewer men.

It doesn't mean women are bad. But the dating environment can be less advantageous to men in the bay area than other markets. Moving can be logical without implying anything wrong with women.

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But he didn’t say that. He just slagged on all women’s “behavior”. Don’t introduce nuance where he clearly didn’t. Nuance would’ve made the statement much better, but he chose not to! So bizarre!
As a dude in a happy relationship I would absolutely give the same recommendation to any guy my old professor did here. He is merely making a statement about average behavior, not all behavior.

It is just not worth sifting through the sand to find the "normally" behaving women here. It is so much easier to date in literally any other city that it's not even funny.

>all women’s “behavior"

Again, he never said the word "all", and much turns on that word. It is you who is attempting to destroy nuance, by twisting what he did say into something more shocking, in the hope that more pearls will be clutched.