[zemvpferreira]

This seems to me like a lack of people skills on both sides of the conversation.

Not feeling great today? Keep it to yourself or at most tell people who depend on you for something critical today. Avoid all work that isn't urgent and important. Communicate as necessary and expected.

Other person not feeling great today? Don't ask them to do anything that's not urgent and important. Feel free to ping them via message on random stuff, they're not doing work-work anyway.

Any of that feel like too much? Person fucked up, they should have taken sick leave instead.