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by wccrawford 827 days ago
I went through this with an online friend. I understand why they were like they were, but I couldn't let them continue to be that way around me.

Years later, we're talking again, and I think it'll be okay this time. It'll never be the same, but at least it's not nothing.

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Did you set new parameters for the relationship, and they eventually accepted it?
No, but I told them what they did wrong and how I wouldn't stand for it. I also took away the avenue they used to wrong me (Facebook) when I split with them, and didn't reinstate it when we started talking again. We never really communicated via FB anyhow, so it didn't matter much.