Sorry I don't mean it as insult or to stir up any political arguments. I guess I could have said "personality", but I was motivated to understand this from the Google Gemini controversy.
It started out having a specific positive meaning of being aware of social injustice and has in the hands of conservatives transitioned to meaning virtually anything I don't like that could even vaguely be attached however tangentially politically to anything left of Hitler or involving anyone except a white conservative man or his christian conservative wife and obedient white children.
If your minority waitress brings you burned toast it might be woke.