[pfannkuchen]

> and I did not tell her

I don’t think you should feel too bad about this. Having a severe sesame allergy and not knowing what tahini is and also not asking about sesame in dishes is quite reckless IMO. They were bound to accidentally eat something with tahini in it eventually.

[neomantra]

Thanks for that :) I don’t beat myself up — I did then! — but I do use it for reflection.