[remarkEon]

> really don't understand this trend of people excitedly advocating for something then crying foul when you say that they said it

A friend of mine calls this the Celebration Parallax. "This thing isn't happening, and it's good that it is happening."

Depending on who is describing the event in question, the event is either not happening and a dog-whistling conspiracy theory, or it is happening and it's a good thing.

[mynameishere]

The best example is The Great Replacement "Theory", which is widely celebrated by the left (including the president) unless someone on the right objects or even uses the above name for it. Then it does not exist and certainly didn't become Federal policy in 1965.