| RSD is a term used to explain a behavior. It doesn't have to be a medical diagnosis for it to be something people experience. > It's more about ensuring they appreciate the severity of the deadline. People with ADHD are aware that there are consequences for missing deadlines, so aware they've coined the phrase "ADHD Tax"[1]. Shaming doesn't motivate people, especially people who have issues with motivation in the first place[2]. It just causes them to withdrawal. > If I tell an ADHD person to try their best to meet the deadline, they might have not started at all, and end up falling far behind, or start making excuses because they are captivated by another task. Telling someone to "try their best" doesn't actually address the problem their having. Folks with ADHD aren't always just distracted. There are a number of factors at play with ADHD: poor memory (e.g. often "out of sight, out of mind"), poor organizational skills, and often time-blindness make it hard for people with ADHD to structure their lives. All of these things fall under "executive function"-- which is impaired in people with ADHD[3]. Ex: someone with ADHD might spend a week working on some random detail that doesn't matter, because they think it's important. Deadline extensions are only one type of accommodation, but imo they don't really address what the person is struggling with. There a multitude of other accommodations. This may include letting an employee wear headphones, or having a "do not disturb" sign (that is actually respected), or partnering with an employee with especially good organizational skills. Allowing them to block out a few hours of the day where they will not respond to phone calls or emails, etc... For projects: assistance with breaking down tasks and setting priorities paired with frequent deadlines can combat overwhelm and help with consistency. There are lots of ideas out there, here's a particularly helpful list[4]. Do not micromanage-- you'll make it worse. > I can only conclude that ADHD people need a shorter leash regarding scope and stricter deadlines, and not a comforting presence to reduce the pressure. The most helpful accommodations will depend on the individual, but now you have lots of ideas. Of course, they hinge on the employee feeling comfortable enough with you to actually discuss what they need. [1]: https://www.additudemag.com/adhd-tax-financial-wellness-mone... [2]: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/longing-nostalgia/20... [3]: https://www.additudemag.com/7-executive-function-deficits-li... [4]: https://add.org/adhd-workplace-accommodations-guide/ |
Pretty much what I am arguing for.
Deadlines have to matter.
> someone with ADHD might spend a week working on some random detail that doesn't matter, because they think it's important.
No one is like "oh, thanks, it was just a matter of working on this thing, my bad, I lost track of time". It's a totally arduous process to abandon this task you are enjoying and drag yourself kicking and screaming to work on what you should be working on...which will be pain inducing. You need a way to get through this pain.