[bloopernova]

I'm sorry that happened to you. The phrase that made my then wife an ex-wife for me was "you're not supposed to be fixing yourself you're supposed to be fixing our marriage!"

Led me (with therapy and time) to realize what I meant to her; I was an accessory.

[camillomiller]

Oh wow, glad for you she’s ex now

[brnt]

Wut, wild for her to not see how those two are so interlinked that separating them is considered old fashioned nowadays by therapists.