It's one of those things, that is, if you know, you know. If you don't, then you don't. Unfortunately for us, I don't feel good about revealing too much about it (or myself). Sorry.
Nihilism is a family of views within philosophy which rejects generally accepted or fundamental aspects of human existence, such as knowledge, morality, or meaning.
Or fairness. Exhibited by this quote of yours:
>I think that if we want to grow up, we need to grow beyond fairness and unfairness.
You might not be a nihilist, but nihilism is 100% what you are preaching here in defense of wealth inequality.
If you're not, it's somehow even worse. And, it reminds me of this rather brilliant scene in the big lebowski:
Walter Sobchak: No, without a hostage, there is no ransom. That's what ransom is. Those are the fucking rules.
Nihilist #2: His girlfriend gave up her toe!
Nihilist #3: She though we'd be getting million dollars!
Nihilist #2: Iss not fair!
Walter Sobchak: Fair! WHO'S THE FUCKING NIHILIST HERE! WHAT ARE YOU, A BUNCH OF FUCKING CRYBABIES?
I'm fully aware of nihilism. I think it's childish.
I think we don't know if there a meaning to life and we might never have an answer. If such a meaning exists, I think that humans simply are not equipped to reason about the meaning of their own existence.