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by sethrin 850 days ago
Instead of "I'm struggling to take this in good faith" you might try asking clarifying questions; it's less rude that way.

Talking about goals is a way of suggesting that sex isn't competitive. It is simply an act, with what meaning humans impart.

> It’s impossible to disentangle reproduction from sexual behavior

Gay people beg to differ.

I'm not going to engage in generalities about how people affect each other; the subject at hand was a philosophy that encourages people to feel badly about themselves if they're not having sex with a "10", with an analogy to beauty product advertising. The claim was that subscribing to that philosophy was a choice. Happy to hear your thoughts regarding that.

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Gay people beg to differ.

As do straight people. Most straight people, most of the time, take considerable pains to avoid reproduction.

Evolutionary psychology often proposes badly oversimplified models, and people draw invalid conclusions, even in non-human animals. But even more importantly, human conscious goals are categorically different from "every action is a selfish gene making a choice".