[mistymountains]

For all you know he had a hard adjustment to the college workload. Maybe his high school was not serious and nobody really challenged him. You all could have interrogated why he may have struggled and shared your strategies for success, lifting him up rather than beating him down. That would make you true “brothers”.

[Vaslo]

What a weird “I hate fraternities” response. It’s clear you’d really struggle with a group that holds itself accountable.