[twojobsoneboss]

Yes, all the "it's hard" that you hear from others – yeah you have no idea until you actually experience it.

So glad things improved for you. Really once you're a dad, the only choice is to adapt or divorce. Call it copium or what have you, but you do what needs to be done, you shift your mindset however it needs shifting, and do whatever helps you (and everyone else) get through.

[_kb]

Divorce doesn’t stop you from being a parent. Having a child is one of the few non-invertable functions you can apply to life.