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by retrac 864 days ago
A similar effect: the imperative (giving orders). It is nearly as taboo in English, to just use the imperative, as it is in Japan. For example, if you have a dinner guest, you will ask "Would you like some more? Could you pass the salt?" It's always very indirect, put as a request that may be refused, or a suggestion. In other cultures, it may just be the bare imperative - "Eat more! Give me the salt." - and this is perfectly polite, contextually.
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Is "Would you like some more?" really a good example here? It's not really implying that the person asked ought to eat more, is it?
It certainly can. For instance, when the speaker is my mother.
Maternal imperative mood: Any order or command phrased as a question, despite being non-optional.

Example:

"Do you want to turn on the fan?"

(Standard imperative equivalent: "Turn on the fan.")