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by simne 870 days ago
Networking is answer. And yes, two advises.

First, attend as many events as you could (as health accept :) ). Good to attend with potential partner. Always gather contacts.

Second, give others a try. This is very important, many humans are not brave enough to make appointment, so you should keep your eyes opened and invite others. Also, first meet is not easy for most people, so give second chance. Sometimes need to push.

It is very possible, you already meet your future partner, you just need to remember her or him and call.

And sorry, third advice: some people are not ready for relations NOW, but they will be ready in some future. Psychologists named this "make touch", when you periodically make delicate attempts to remember about yourself. You don't need to make full-featured date, may be just attend some event. Yes, when somebody said "Not" it could be "Not now", remember this.

And the last advice, some people avoid to make first move, or their move could looking confusing or weird, or they could even afraid to do this. Be careful to catch this and make your move brave and enough delicate but strong and fast.

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If you hate sales, try pickupers - they will also train you to see if somebody interested in you, and if not.

I'm very serious - if you will trained to see in crowd somebody interested in you, this will make your chances quadrupled at least.